Archive for October, 2005

ideal guy daw

Tuesday, October 11th, 2005

1.Dapat ba gwapo? not rily…

2.Matalino? dsnt have to be genius..bsta may sense kausap..

3.Preferred Age? kahit ano…bsta importante mature..

4. Prefered Height? taller than me..like 5′7"?!

5. How about sense of humor? yes..of cors…

6. How about piercings? nah..

7. Accepts me for who I am? of cors…

8. Pink hair? heller?? tatalunin pa q sa pgka addict ko sa pink..k ka lang?!

9. Mushy or not?? mushy (",)

10. Thin or chubby? thin?!

11.Moreno or Chinit0 or Mestiso? moreno..tsinito

12. Long Hair or Short Hair? clean cut..

13. Plastic or Metal? and guy?!?! ano yon robot??

14. Smells good? oo nman!!

5. Smoker? ayus lang..pro f pwede i quit better

16. Drinker? yah..one on one pa kme..

17. boy-next-door type? sure y not…

18. Musically inclined? yah..para musical ang lyf..

19. Plays the Piano? not rily

20. Plays the guitar? not rily..

21. Plays violin? nope

22. Sings very good? ok lang..bsta kumakanta..

23. vain? yah..i find guys na vain cute..hehehe..atleast malinis..

24. With Glasses?nope..

25. With Braces? ayyy!!! y not?!?!? hehehe *may naalala*

26.Shy type? ok lng. huwag naman o.a. bka mapanis laway ko

27. from what country? pilipinas!! iba p rin mag mahal ang pinoi!

28. Active or Passive? both..may tyms na active..sumtyms passive..

29.Sporty or Couchpotato? both

30. Singer or Dancer? dancer..para partner ko..hehehe

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A girlfriend’s neither gotten nor forgotten

Monday, October 10th, 2005

A girlfriend’s neither gotten nor forgotten

A girlfriend’s neither gotten nor forgotten.
She’s never just a friend who is a girl.
She doesn’t wear a nameplate or a flower.
You never can be certain that she’s there.
You’re going to have to jump right off a building
And probably break your ego and your neck.
Nine times out of ten you’ll wish you’d vanished,
But one time out of ten–why, there she’ll be!

A girlfriend isn’t something you acquire.
A girlfriend is a person, not a thing.
And if you leap and land next to the right one,
She’ll burn her image right into your heart.

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letter from a friend…

Monday, October 10th, 2005

my friend wrote this for me…

..you always thought that unwinding the hands of time is very easy and its only by this time i realized it isnt. you only got to remember those days of happiness, of sadness but you cant bring them back the way you want to. the truth will remain that they are not in your arms anymore. You can close you’re fist for the past to remail but if you do, you will not be able to hold on to somethng new. So, take the risk of letteing go. Even if it gives you so much pain. Its hard to say goodbye especially if we know that there are alot of things to hold on but we all know that life wont end there.. all we can do is reminisce the past..and that in one way or another you take a step further…

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hot to deal..

Monday, October 10th, 2005

Sometimes a man has to choose
And do something he doesnt wanna do
Do i live my life with you as my wife?
Or do i go on and pursue my lifetime dream?
i gotta do this for me
Cuz if I dont I’ll probably regret it
But if I do I’ll probably regret it
How do I cope?

How do you cope when
the one you love is with somebody else
And theres nothin you can do about it
How do you deal with
The fact that you had a chance
But you chose to turn away for your career
I gotta take it though its heart-breakin’
Its somethin that I had to do
But nobody said that it would hurt so bad
So how do I live..
How do I deal without you

Its killing me to know
That your heart’s with me
But you’re with him cuz I chose to be
In this industry
Money, shows and hoes come along with
Luxury and pain
Is all you see when you think about it
But this is the life
That I was given
So i have to live it to the fullest
But how do I deal in the meantime
Without you

How do you deal when
you can’t be with the one you love
And the one that you love is with somebody else
(I don’t know, I don’t know)
And what do you do
when you know she don’t love him
and she loves me but she just can’t stand loving you far away
(I guess I’m gonna have to just)
You just deal with it, deal with it
(I don’t want to have to live with it)
You just deal with it, deal with it
(no, no, no)
You just deal with it, deal with it
(I don’t want nobody else loving you)
You just deal with it, deal with it
(I don’t want nobody else loving me)

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things to ponder..

Friday, October 7th, 2005

75 lessons that women MUST learn in relationships (c/o my sister) :P

gurls.. read this.. it is really helpful.. i emphasized th0se statements which i can relate t0.. haha.. read 0n…..

75 lessons that women MUST learn in relationships

1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a man and his
behavior.
3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a
man’s character, leave him alone.
4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from
heartache.
5. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship
that’s not meant to be.
6. Don’t force an attraction.
7. Slower is better.
8. Never live your life for a man before you find
what makes you truly
happy.
9. If a relationship ends because the man was not
treating you as you
deserve then heck no you can’t "be friends." A
friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
10. Have faith in God regarding your relationship,
but don’t let faith
make you stupid. God does things decent and in
order.
11. Don’t settle.
12. If you feel like he is stringing you along,
then he
probably is.
13. If he keeps changing his mind about the
relationship–take that as a BIG sign that he is
unstable. Do you really want to be with a man like
that?
14. Don’t stay because you think "it will get
better." You’ll be mad at
yourself a year later for staying when things are not
better.
15. Honorable men take care of their business
and aren’t involved in a
whole lot of mess.
16. The only person you can control in a
relationship is you.
17. There’s only one ‘reason’ a man dumps you;
he doesn’t want you.
18. Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a
bunch of different
women. He didn’t marry them when he got them
pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
19. You really do have to kiss a few frogs before
finding the prince.
20. Always put yourself and your happiness first.
21. Always have your own set of friends separate
from his.
22. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If
something bothers you, speak up.
23. Like from the show Sex and the City, if he
doesn’t call, he just isn’t
that interested.
24. Be honest and upfront.
25. Know when to cut the cord, don’t be strung
along.
26. Don’t fall for the "I’m confused role". Remove
yourself from the
situation to let him figure things out (but don’t wait
for him, move on).
27. If you want to have a clue as to how he will
treat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his
family (not just mom).
28. There’s more than physical abuse, there’s
emotional and mental abuse. If he causes any of
them…flee.
29. You cannot change a man’s behaviors.
Change comes from within.
30. Don’t let him place rules on you that he is not
willing to follow
himself — double-standard.
31. Don’t EVER make him feel he is more
important than you are…even if he has more
education or in a better job.
32. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a
man, nothing more nothing less.
33. Demand respect and if he can’t give it, he
can’t have you!
34. Don’t compete with other woman, but be
aware that men are attracted to what they see.
35. If you think he is cheating, he probably is.
Confront him right away
and if you feel he’s lying, let him go.
36. Actions speak louder than words.
37. Never let a man define who you are.
38. Never rely on a man for compliments, look to
yourself for that.
39. Never borrow someone else’s man.
40. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
41. Just because he says he loves you, doesn’t
mean that he won’t hurt you and it doesn’t mean
that you are meant to be with him.
42. To use painful hard-won wisdom — ‘get it right’
the next time.
43. Know that you deserve to be the number one
person in the life of the .1person in your life.
44. Love is a verb …
45. Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to
make someone
unavailable-available, someone ungiving-giving,
and someone
unloving-loving.
46. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW
him to treat you.
47. All men are NOT dogs.
48. You should not be the one doing all the
bending…compromise is a two way street.
49. If you don’t love urself.you can’t love anyone
else.
50. You cannot mend someone else’s broken
heart.
51. You need time to heal between
relationships…there is nothing cute
about baggage…deal with your issues before
pursuing a new relationship.
52. You should never look for someone to
COMPLETE you…a relationship consists of two
WHOLE individuals…look for someone
complementary…not supplementary.
53. Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be
Mr. Right.
54. NEVER give more in a relationship than you
are getting out of it.
55. Never become your man’s "therapist".
56. When actions and words conflict, believe the
actions. Respond to the actions.
57. A real healthy relationship requires two
people. One person can end
it - but it takes two to make it work.
58. Don’t fall for the "I’m not the loving
type"…when
a man loves you
there is nothing in this world (within reason) that he
wouldn’t do for you.
59. Make him miss you sometimes…when a man
always know where you are, and you’re always
readily available to him he takes it for granted.
60. Give him his space…let him go out with his
boys, don’t pressure him to spend time with you,
You cant force a man to hang out with you.
61. If you wouldn’t allow your daughter to be with
him you shouldn’t.
62. Never let a man know everything. He will use it
against you later.
63. Never move into his mother’s house.
64. Provide financially for yourself and don’t
depend on anyone.
65. Never co-sign for a man.
66. Never believe you have the perfect guy and he
is so innocent.
67. Never spoil your man; let him spoil you.
68. Never let a man mess up your credit.
69. When it’s time to let go; let go.
70. Good men should be treated like good men.
71. Don’t play games.
72. Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give
you everything that you need.
73. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
74. Compatibility in terms of educational
attainment, values, beliefs,
personal and career goals, and socioeconomic
status, are important.
75. Never date a guy who wears colored contacts.

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..dont cha..

Monday, October 3rd, 2005

"Don’t Cha"
[Busta Rhymes]
Ok (ahh)
Yeahh (ahh)
Oh, we about to get it just a lil hot and sweaty in this mu’fucka (oh, baby)
Ladies let’s go (uhh)
Soldiers let’s go (dolls)
Let me talk to y’all and just you know
Give you a little situation… listen (fellas)

[Buster Rhymes]
Pussycat Dolls
Ya see this shit get hot
Everytime I come through when I step up in the spot (are you ready)
Make the place sizzle like a summertime cookout
Prowl for the best chick
Yes I’m on the lookout (lets dance)
Slow bangin shorty like a belly dancer with it
Smell good, pretty skin, so gangsta with it (oh, baby)
No tricks only diamonds under my sleeve
Gimme tha number
But make sure you call before you leave

[Pussycat Dolls]
I know you like me (I know you like me)
I know you do (I know you do)
Thats why whenever I come around
She’s all over you (she’s all over you)
I know you want it (I know you want it)
It’s easy to see (it’s easy to see)
And in the back of your mind
I know you should be fucking me (babe)

[Chorus:]
Don’t cha wish your girlfriend was hot like me?
Don’t cha wish your girlfriend was a freak like me?
Don’t cha
Don’t cha
Don’t cha wish your girlfriend was raw like me?
Don’t cha wish your girlfriend was fun like me?
Don’t cha
Don’t cha

Fight the feeling (fight the feeling)
Leave it alone (leave it alone)
Cause if it ain’t love
It just aint enough to leave my happy home (my happy home)
Let’s keep it friendly (let’s keep it friendly)
You have to play fair (you have to play fair)
See I dont care
But I know She ain’t gonna wanna share

[Chorus:]
Don’t cha wish your girlfriend was hot like me?
Don’t cha wish your girlfriend was a freak like me?
Don’t cha
Don’t cha
Don’t cha wish your girlfriend was raw like me?
Don’t cha wish your girlfriend was fun like me?
Don’t cha
Don’t cha

[Busta Rhymes]
Ok, I see how it’s goin’ down (ahh, don’t cha)
Seems like shorty wanna little menage pop off or somethin, let’s go
Well let me get straight to it
Every broad wan watch a nigga when I come through it
It’s the god almighty, lookin all brand new
If shorty wanna jump in my ass then vanjewish
Lookin at me all like she really wanna do it
Tryna put it on me till my balls black an blueish
Ya wanna play wit ah playa girl then play on
Strip out the channel
And leave the lingerie on
Watch me and I’mma watch you at the same time
Lookin at ya wan break my back
You the very reason why I keep a pack ah the Magnum
An wit the wagon hit chu in the back of tha magnum
For the record, don’t think it was somethin you did
Shorty all on me cuz it’s hard to resist the kid
I got a idea that’s dope for y’all
As y’all could get so I could hit the both of y’all

[Pussycat Dolls]
I know she loves you (I know she loves you)
So I understand (I understand)
I’d probably be just as crazy about you
If you were my own man
Maybe next lifetime (maybe next lifetime)
Possibly (possibly)
Until then old friend
Your secret is safe with me

[Chorus:]
Don’t cha wish your girlfriend was hot like me?
Don’t cha wish your girlfriend was a freak like me?
Don’t cha
Don’t cha
Don’t cha wish your girlfriend was raw like me?
Don’t cha wish your girlfriend was fun like me?
Don’t cha
Don’t cha

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when u love someone…

Monday, October 3rd, 2005

When You Love Someone
When you love someone so deep inside,
It seems like it’s so easy to hide.
You’ve loved him for so very long,
You would think he could do no wrong.

Every day you would hope and pray,
That he would always stay this way.
He treated you like you should be treated,
You thought your life was finally completed.

You thought your love was growing true,
And then one day it was all so blue.
He started putting you down and it hurt,
You thought all you were to him was dirt.

He started ignoring you and you wondered why,
All you wanted to do was curl up and die.
You thought your relationship would never end,
But that was all so fake and pretend.

One night he was so sweet to you,
You thought all those things were maybe untrue,
Two days later he was back the same,
You thought you were the one to blame.

He thought the relationship was getting too serious
And that you had become a little too curious.
By this time you knew it wouldn’t last,
All the nice things he said were in the past.

You thought that you would marry him some day,
But this time God wanted to get his way.
You wanted things back how they were before,
But you knew this couldn’t happen anymore.

It was a Saturday night about ten o’clock,
You heard the news and it wasn’t a shock.
You knew this was going to happen soon,
As you laid there and cried in the pale lit moon.

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